We often feel our mind got stuck when we hear news about someones death . This feeling intensify when that person closely associated with us. All memories of that person could visualize, as movie fast rewind. Of course we feel the worry about our own death after thinking about dead person.
The one who died, .may not lived his life as he wants live. We all have habit of procrastinating and that habit leads us to make so many things delay in life. It might be due to responsibilities, care, love and many more reasons. We often see parents sacrifices a lot for children's . Many married couples does same for each others happiness so on and so forth.
Our life is product of desire and effort taken to fulfill those. Its always observed that the person who is having last few moments in his life regrating the things which he does not tried. I personally think that life is all about exploring possibilities, relations, love, affections. When I was in 5th our teachers use to tell us about the real secret of happiness I.e. it will get multiplied if you share it.
When I look back about my every feelings of life, its function of time . Things which are important to you in ur childhood are not equally important now. So in nutshell ...if u can't happy with the one reason then why we keep our self unhappy for one reason through out life. So let's try to forgive, and of course say sorry if u know u made mistake. It will surly make our life happy.
We could see one of the TV add ...which says: life should not happy rater than long & unhappy. So let's open up ...share your feelings to everyone .. try to uncover the stuffs under the carpet ...you never ever know which moment is your last moment. Life does not give second chance. I personally went through this experience that ...I am thinking i could have shared gratitude to the one who are no more with me.
We have been told we get heaven or hell based on our "Karma".Soul changes from one body to another like we change cloths. So every one have to go though this phase of death and everyone has to treat this as transformation as part of life. Of one think in that way then there is no "FEAR OF DEATH".
Sometimes we come across death of our closed one which broke our heart ....but if we think above analogy then we could imagine they are in better place than before and they are always with us in memories only body disappear.
So let's decide today no more fear of death ... we die every day by worry of death. Lets die only once in reality and live rest of life forever.
